TOP 10 REASONS TO BECOME A BETTER NEGOTIATOR IN REAL ESTATE & EVERY OTHER ASPECT OF YOUR LIFE! Part 2

Number 2 of our 10 points deals with : "Achieve Desired Outcomes". This is where most negotiators go wrong and settle for whatever they can get in the negotiation process. The number one reason negotiators do not achieve the desired outcome they hope to achieve is because they fail to stick to their negotiating plan, and default to their opponents agenda. The kiss of death to any negotiator is to allow your opponent to take control from you during the negotiating process; it’s better for you to either stop the negotiations or ask for a break! You could use a ploy such as: “ I would really like to postpone this meeting until I have assembled some more information or documentation, so I may provide the most up to date and correct resources or numbers etc……”.

If you would rather just have a break use something like this : ask for a bathroom break, tell them you have to make an important phone call or start talking about something that has very little to due with the subject matter at hand – this in the legal arena is called a “side bar”.

The ploy or break allows you time to get back on track with your agenda and start with a clean slate. This will hopefully break or interrupt your opponents stride and or thought process and allow you to get back on track.

In conclusion, in order to achieve the desired outcome : 1. Never loose control of the negotiations; if so use a ploy or a break technique.

2. Always stay on track with your plan and never give control of the negotiations over to your opponent. Keep these 2 points in mind and you will always achieve your desired outcome.

Be well,

James Gage

TOP 10 REASONS TO BECOME A BETTER NEGOTIATOR IN REAL ESTATE & EVERY OTHER ASPECT OF YOUR LIFE! Part 1

Number 1 of our 10 points deals with : "More Personal & Professional Profitability". Plain and simple, it means the better negotiator your are the more your bank account will increase.

The first mistake people make is thinking that sales and negotiating are 2 different animals - nothing could be further from the truth. We need to treat negotiating as if we are a commission based sales person, that every step of the negotiating process is a matter of putting food on the table.
With that in mind we must change the way we approach the negotiating table and forget about getting to "yes" and get to "no" as soon as possible in order to make maximum profit and leverage time to our greatest benefit.
Instead of dealing with prolonged negotiations, determine upfront whether your time invested will bear fruit or establish whether you are on a hopeless quest leading no where. If you probe your opponent, you sound be able to know based on pointed questions, within 5-7 minutes, if you will be able to accomplish a winning negotiating session; this holds true in real estate, business transactions and personal venues.

" Negotiating is a "Million Dollar Skill".

Until next time be well.

James Gage